It’s funny isn’t it – I’ve spent three years on my course and never connected with the people on it. It’s not that they’re not nice, nor that we have nothing in common (hell, we’re all student nurses). The major reason for that lack of connection has been me. When I’m thrown into a group of people – a new group – outside of work this is – I become ultra shy. It’s taken me nearly 2 years of being with these people to become comfortable enough to start to speak out significantly in the group. When I do, it’s fine. I’ve really enjoyed it – but it didn’t exactly meet my intentions to be way more proactive about being friendly and meeting people that I had when I started.
I guess a lot of that can be put down to my social and personal life during my course, it’s not been condusive to meeting new people; but I really regretted it today. We had to do a ‘share what you think of everyone else’ type thing – where we all wrote our name on a piece of paper, passed it round the group, and everyone wrote what they thought of that person on that piece of paper. Or some memory. Or whatever. And y’know what it’s interchangable with the one from school – except for two things, two comments, from the two people I always regretted not getting to know better.
They both said stuff about being sorry they’d not got to know me. And that sucks, because I should have. I should have taken that step. I still don’t quite know what causes the shyness in groups that I don’t have in work. I think it’s some fear of opening up to people. Perhaps it’s my history. I don’t know. I need to change it though. Or I’d *like* to change it.
Anyway, before I read the comments – we left them to read after the session – I dashed off. And I regret that now, in fact I regretted it pretty much as soon as I read them. Before, and most of the time I’ve been there, I’ve kind of felt like I was skirting the edges of the group – but the comments actually made me feel much more included than I did. Still, I promised to go to David’s party, so I shall. I’ll even stay over at Maria’s. Ironic, I’m leaving so I’m gonna get to know people.
Hrm.
It’s really time for me to start working. I’m writing this on the laptop – which has just thrown up a blue-screen, not of death (though I’m awaiting that); which might be related to my playing with Firefox 2 Beta 1. It’s nice and quick though.
Anyway, in other news my copy of Firefly’s arrived – it’s different to Lauren’s (I wasn’t expecting that) – no booklet in mine and a different case. Mine appears to be the Australian edition. Heh. It’s not actually quite as nice as Lauren’s, but then it was free (well, ‘loyalty’).
In other news, my friend Nikki’s asked me to do some music videos for a few of her songs. This is weird. And possibly hard. I’m not used to directing other people; which makes it hard. They’re her songs, which also makes it hard, she knows what she had in mind making them, so my suggestions my go down like a ton of lead, but then she may love them. It’s weird though. Whatever happens I’ll be ceding some of the control to her, and I’m not used to letting other people have much involvement in ‘my’ videos. It should be fun though, and interesting. Especially because I have some quite strong imagery in my head for some of it.
Incidentally, we’re now wireless for sound and vision, except that being my ‘music server’ the loss of my main PC (although I still turn it on to check mail, I know I shouldn’t) is quite a spectacular pain in the arse. Although at the moment I’m listening to Ladytron. I’m not that impressed, ironically, with the quality of this record. I’m not *sure* but it sounds noisy, it had finger prints on it when I got it out of the sleeve. I’m going to see what the second disk sounds like, but I’m pretty convinced it’s got damaged, either that or it’s not very well mastered :(
The DVD with the ‘Extended Play’ EP is fantastic though.
Anyway, I should work. Not, you understand, that the lecturer Caia Frances has bothered to get back to me. A week and she can’t even be bothered to say “that’s not enough for me to comment on”; “that’s appropriate” or “that’s useless”. No. Nothing. Sod all. Fucking UWE. This is the level of support you get? I don’t understand an assignment, I’ve gone from 70% to 30% and there’s *nothing* there to help. Nothing a-fucking-tall.
Yeah, see, there’s noticable regular crackles on this disk. Bollocks. Anyone with the CD of Witching Hour – are there deliberate crackles on it?
