Post 20011112

12/11/01, 09:12

I’m so scared of losing my dad. I know I need to be positive, but it’s so hard knowing what I do. I love my dad so very much and losing him just after I finally let both my parents back in….

I keep telling myself he’s not going to die – but the cancer is so bad. I always thought I had years left. I couldn’t imagine a world without them, and now I’m having to. It feels very selfish to say about me when it’s him that’s ill.

But I know I’m not just thinking about me.


12/11/01, 19:24

Well, today seemed to be going quite well until a little while ago when it became apparent that the infection which caused me to have to come home with a catheter has decided to have another go at me.

I’ve actually been quite up and about today – but this has actually forced me to take some painkillers (coproximol) – which are making me very woozy – and my GP has prescribed some Trimethoprim – to try and kill the infection….we just caught him at the surgery…..

So I’m drinking gallons of water and trying to relax because ot the moment my entire body is tense……



Kate E