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  • So that was sad-lovely-odd

    This weekend we went down to visit my mum in what is probably the penultimate visit to her house before we move to the US. Thanks to my lovely friend John, we were equipped with a slide projector, which meant my mum could finally look at the slides from her last visit to Sri Lanka, and we could sit and have a proper 1970’s slide-show evening.

    It’s really very odd.

    I mean, none of us have really seen these slides since, I think, around the late 80s, possibly some time in the early 1990s, because my parents slide projector broke and no spares were available. My dad’d stopped taking slides when it broke, and apart from occasionally digging it out and manually moving the slide-change mechanism with the cover off, and avoiding burning your fingers on the hot-bulb, it was simply a case of not seeing them.

    So, the last two nights we sat down with my mother and her husband, and we worked our way, initially chronologically through the slides. Then when it became apparent we’d no-way make it through them all, random boxes were pulled out – and snapshots of our lives flicked up on the wall.

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    It was amazing. It’s a weirdly powerful experience – and I let my video capture random snippets of the show with the stories attached to some of the pictures. But I’d forgotten how, unlike flicking through an instagram feed, or scrolling through flickr, the experience is remarkably immersive. I mean, for all the tales of long winded 1970’s slide-show parties; I always adore hearing my mother’s stories. She is a hilarious story teller, and has had the most incredible life.

    I’ve asked her to write her story, because I think many of the tales she tells would amuse people outside our family. And because I want her stories preserved for posterity. I’ve a terrible memory, and there’s just no way I can remember enough of it… But she always laughs and declines.

    At any rate, it was a wonderful, but incredibly melancholy experience.

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    We’ve packed up some of the slides to take with us, and made my mother and her husband promise to send us the rest, should they ever want to throw them away.

    But it brought home the enormity of leaving the UK for me.

    It is exciting, but it’s also terribly painful leaving my family so far away. I’ve no idea how Kathryn’s coped with it so well. It doesn’t make me not want to leave, but it does make me fiercely wish I could take my family across too.

  • Anonymous:

    Is using honey bad? It would be hard for me to give that up because I love it so much.

    tkingfisher:

    chimericaloutlier:

    tkingfisher:

    perfectly-ultimate-great-shoofle:

    vmprsm:

    inquisitorhotpants:

    velocicrafter:

    veronica-rich:

    systlin:

    justkeepswimmingk:

    give-a-fuck-about-nature:

    systlin:

    powrd-by-plants:

    16 oz of honey requires 1152 bees to travel 112,000 miles and visit 4.5 million flowers.

    Most of the honey we get at supermarkets and stores don’t come from natural hives. 

    Honey is an animal product, produced when bees digest nectar they have collected and then regurgitate it. It is an animal product, just like an egg or milk. Yes, a bee is an insect and not technically considered an animal by many people, but a bee’s body changes the composition of what it ingests, just like other animals.

    However, there is another reason vegans won’t eat honey, and that is because it is harmful to another living creature. According to Daniel Hammer, bees do experience pain and suffering while they are being exploited for their products (not just honey but also beeswax, royal jelly, and more). There is simply no way beekeepers, humane or otherwise, can avoid harming or killing bees while they are extracting the bees’ products. Many vegans choose their lifestyle because they wish to avoid harming any other creature, and so they choose not to eat honey.

    Check out this couple of articles that are pretty complete about everything around this topic :) 

    As a beekeeper, let me say the following. 

    As a vegan, you depend upon beekeeping. It doesn’t matter if you never use beeswax or eat honey. You still depend on beekeeping. It is absolutely impossible not to. 

    Because here’s the secret; you know all those delicious fruits and vegetables you eat? You wouldn’t have them if it wasn’t for bees, and here’s another secret; those bees were probably either kept by the farmer who grew them for the purpose of pollinating his/her crops, or moved to the farm during pollination season by a beekeeper. 

    If you’ve ever eaten a cherry, almond, blueberry, tomato, melon, squash, raspberry, strawberry…hell, most fruits or veggies…you’ve benefited from beekeeping. There is simply no way to avoid it. If you leave it up to whatever pollinators happen to stop in from the surrounding area, your yields will suffer dramatically, which means less produce and less money for the farmer. Therefore, the easy and universally preferred method is to plop a few hives on the property. The girls will make sure that just about every last almond/cherry/blueberry flower is pollinated (They’re VERY good at what they do) and you can happily harvest a bumper crop. This is a universally used practice among food producers. 

    And do you know the best way to help make sure the bees survive?

    Keep them. Organically, without using any chemicals. And here’s a secret about beekeeping; you inspect the hives whether or not you take honey, to make sure the bees are healthy and doing well. (There are mites and diseases that can severely harm bees, and even as an organic beekeeper who doesn’t use chemicals on her girls there are methods I use to prevent/treat things like varroa mite infestation that can kill an otherwise healthy hive).

    And yes, when you open a hive to inspect it, you might crush one or two bees. But tell me, honestly, that you’ve never killed an insect. Bees themselves will kill sick/non productive members of the hive to ensure the health of the hive as a whole; I don’t see how my accidentally squishing one to ensure the health of the other 50,000 is any different. 

    And this is what all beekeepers do. And if you, as before mentioned, ever eat anything that isn’t grain-based, this is what took place to put that food on your plate. 

    I would also like to point out that bees will store as much honey as they possibly can…which usually ends up being waaaaay more than they actually can use. To survive a log Iowa winter, my bees need about 100 lbs of honey per hive. Well, last year one hive had TWICE that. (I took 50 pounds, leaving them MORE than enough to get through the winter. I just checked on them today; they’re alive and healthy). 

    You are NOT hurting them by taking a little honey for yourself, no more than you already are by looking in on them every two or three weeks to make sure they’re healthy. 

    And again, if you ever eat any fruits or veggies, SOMEONE IS ALREADY KEEPING BEES TO POLLINATE THEM AND INSPECTING THEM TO MAKE SURE THEY’RE HAPPY AND HEALTHY. 

    KEEPING BEES IS NOT WHAT IS KILLING BEES IT IS WHAT IS SAVING BEES. 

    WITHOUT BEES YOUR VEGAN DIET IS IMPOSSIBLE.

    WITHOUT THAT “EVIL” EXPLOITATION OF BEES YOUR VEGAN DIET IS IMPOSSIBLE. 

    AGAIN, BEEKEEPING IS WHAT IS SAVING BEES NOT KILLING THEM. 

    SO IF YOU EAT A LITTLE HONEY IT IS HONESTLY NO WORSE THAN EATING SOME ALMONDS AND FRUIT SALAD. 

    “Drops mic”

    Why can’t bees be protected without taking the honey they produce? I’m all for their protection and I didn’t born yesterday, I know that without bees we all gonna die, but why is it mandatory to steal their honey?

    Yeah, that made no sense… You can keep bees without stealing from them. You can keep horses without riding them. You can keep dogs without abusing them. Do people really not get this?

    Again, you don’t seem to be getting this. 

    Yes. You can keep bees without taking honey from them. But, as I said before, you’re ALREADY in the hive checking for diseases and pests. That, if anything, is what causes bees stress, not you taking a frame or two of honey (each frame of honey can hold 15 pounds!). 

    Also, there’s a REASON you take honey from bees, not just because you want to eat it. 

    See, like I said before, bees will store as much honey as they can. It’s instinctive. However, there’s only so much room in a hive to put stuff, and honey isn’t the only thing in a hive. They also need room to raise brood, store pollen, ect. Now, if they run out of room, they’ll start feeling overcrowded, which will trigger swarming activity. You can, of course, add more supers (boxes) to the hive, but there’s a limit on how many workers one queen can produce, and you don’t want more supers than they can police, even if all of them are stuffed full of honey. That way lies pests and raiding. So, what we want to do is make sure that they don’t feel overcrowded, while making sure that they don’t have more room than they can take care of. 

    When bees feel overcrowded, they swarm. When they swarm, they raise a new queen. The old queen and half the bees will then leave to try and find someplace to start a new hive. 90% of swarms die. As a beekeeper, you don’t want this. 

    You can, of course, purposefully let them start raising a new queen and then split a new hive off of the old one if you want to. I’ve done this myself. But this is not always desirable, for many reasons (no more room for more hives, can’t take care of more, don’t have a spare hive body on hand, ect.) There’s also the fact that a recently swarmed hive is susceptible to raiding by wasps/skunks (skunks LOVE to raid hives, the little bastards) or mice, as half the bees that would have defended it before are now gone. You don’t want this either; raiding can kill a hive as quick as disease or pests. (This is why I keep a VERY close eye on any hives that I’ve recently split, and have taken potshots at skunks in the backyard with a slingshot before. Not to kill them, just to scare them off.)

    If you don’t want them to swarm, the easiest way to keep them from feeling cramped and give them a little new breathing room is to pull a few surplus honey frames they’ve filled up and replace them with empty frames. The girls will then happily go back to work filling the new empty frames with honey or brood or whatever they decide needs to go in all that new space. They don’t feel crowded any longer, the hive doesn’t swarm and stays strong, everyone’s happy. 

    And what, then, am I supposed to do with these three frames of honey I pulled? Throw them away? Hell no. That’s 30-40 pounds of delicious, right there. 

    Humans and bees have what’s called a symbiotic relationship. We both benefit from the arrangement. Don’t diss things if you don’t understand how they work. 

    And, one more time…keeping bees is necessary for your vegan diet to remain viable. A beekeeper is going to inspect all of those hives anyway, which is the most stressful part of beekeeping for the bees. You are, with your eating habits, (and by that I mean ‘really just eating’, because there’s NO diet that doesn’t rely on beekeeping) reliant on this practice. Taking a frame or two of honey is the LEAST stressful part of inspecting a hive for the bees. 

    Source; have kept bees organically for 10 years, help other hobbyists in the area who want to start keeping bees. Garden organically. Generally Actually Know Where My Food Comes From And What It Takes To Get It On My Plate. 

    I understand some people want to be kind and compassionate. But there’s such a thing as being ignorantly compassionate, to the point where you forget how to do research, apparently.

    I live for these defences of honey tbh

    and the comments that give insight into beekeeping just make it better <3

    bolding for emphasis:

    “Humans and bees have what’s called a symbiotic relationship. We both
    benefit from the arrangement. Don’t diss things if you don’t understand
    how they work.”

    reblogging for the INTELLIGENT support to beekeeping and honey harvesting.

    people, i understand saying ‘save the bees’ but there is no ‘freeing the bees’. we (as beekeepers, i am one myself, have done bee research and have a masters in entomology) are not killing the bees, nor are we abusing them.

    european honey bees, Apis mellifera, are literally only in the US and thriving because we brought them here. there are no wild european honey bees, only feral. they area  FULLY DOMESTICATED species, and yes, are symbiotically linked to humans, though it is a facultative relationship. beekeepers care for bees and really, honey harvesting is about one of the least stressful things to happen to bees. the few crushed during inspections? not even noticed by the hive at large because beehives are what we call a superorganism. crushing a single bee is the equivalent of killing a single cell in our bodies.

    that isn’t to say that all honey bee operations are good, or should really be supported. i’m not a fan of huge pollination operations, where a company keeps thousands of hives and may not necessarily be doing whats best for the bees. but honey harvesting? not even on the radar for things that harm bees.

    here’s the other thing: basically all honey alternatives rely on the exploitation of larger amounts of human labor

    Honeybees need us. We need honeybees. Now, I am all for the appreciation of the work native North American bees (and flies and wasps and beetles and…) do to pollinate our crops, but that’s not an option in areas that don’t have a healthy native bee population, and some plants, often from areas where honeybees evolved, just plain like honeybees to do their pollinating.

    Look, at the end of the day, domestic species, plant and animal, have thrown their lot in with us. You can’t release a milk cow into the wild while humming a few bars from “Born Free” and expect it to turn back into an aurochs. Stop harvesting corn and you don’t get wild corn, you get nothing, because it can’t reseed without human help. We’re stuck with each other now. You can do any thought experiment you like about how maybe those species shouldn’t have been domesticated in the first place, but that ship has SAILED, my friend.

    We’re all in this together.

    Hey, every time *I’ve* released a cow into the wild humming “Born Free” it has turned into an aurochs! Of course every time I hum or sing “Born Free” all the objects around me turn into aurochs…es. It’s starting to become a problem.

    You should probably see a doctor about that. Or a priest.

  • Just for you, @aminorjourney… on Flickr.

    Just for you, @aminorjourney…

  • Given our imminent move to the US, my wonderful mother has decided to do Christmas early this year… on Flickr.

    Given our imminent move to the US, my wonderful mother has decided to do Christmas early this year…

  • lifeofkj:

    justira:

    Abstract

    This project demonstrates that SFF books by or about cis women are less likely to win awards than books by or about cis men. Trans and nonbinary authors do not win awards at all, and trans or nonbinary protagonists are extremely rare. Overall, there were more award-winning books written by cis men about cis men than there were books by women about anybody. While there have been recent gains in terms of diversity in awarded books, this is likely part of a cycle of gains and pushback that has repeated itself throughout the history of SFF awards. SFF awards have a problem when it comes to gender: they privilege cis men and the cis male experience over that of cis women and trans and nonbinary individuals.

    Introduction

    I am justira and I am the lead editor on this project. I collaborated on it with heyheyrenay (Data Monkey & Culture Consultant) and lifeofkj (Reality Checker), whose help was invaluable. We would also like to thank Kate Elliot, Niall Harrison, and Paul Weimer, who helped us in some cases where we were unsure about protagonist gender.

    I’ve been wanting to look at gender breakdowns in SFF awards for a while, and then Nicola Griffith did her post about gender and awards, and it showed exactly what I was afraid of. But I wanted more — I wanted all the major SFF awards, for the life of each award. This post represents over 100 hours of work spent researching awards, authors, and books.

    Read the Results and Analysis on Lady Business!

    This is important work that everyone with any interest in SF/F, visibility and awards, and/or publishing should see (and I’m not just saying that because I helped compile the data).

  • Anonymous:

    Can you explain why Europeans were much more technologically advanced than the indigenous populations of Africa? I mean, these cultures hadn’t even invented sewage systems, which is something the Romans were able to design and implement in 800-735 BC (a long fucking time before “the white man” colonized it)… I mean fuck, without “the white man”, they would probably still be in the fucking bronze age.

    jessicalprice:

    misanthropicmephistopheles:

    eshusplayground:

    shitrichcollegekidssay:

    I don’t really know what kind of history books bigots like you read.

    The Great Libraries of Timbuktu? The steel metallurgy of the Haya? Dentistry? Caesarean section? Premature neonatal care? Mathematics, architecture, engineering?

    I know it’s hard for a racist like you who imagines “technological advancement” to be some kind of end-all-be-all, or proof of some “inherent intelligence”. I know, I know. It’s hard to imagine, but Europeans have been drawing knowledge from everyone around them since the dawn of time. What did you think ended the Dark Ages?

    Your magical (read: white supremacist) idea of a purely ‘white’ Rome never existed.

    Nevertheless…

    The Minoan culture on the island of Crete between 1500-1700 B.C.E. had a highly developed waste management system. They had very advanced plumbing and designed places to dispose of organic wastes. Knossos, the capital city, had a central courtyard with baths that were filled and emptied using terra-cotta pipes. This piping system is similar to techniques used today. They had large sewers built of stone.”

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    In case you needed further clarification, neither the Minoans nor other (later) Greeks were ethnically uniform. They also had the first flush toilets, dating back to 18th century B.C.E. They had flushing toilets, with wooden seats and an overhead reservoir. The Minoan royals were the last group to use flushing toilets until the re-development of that technology in 1596.

    Oh, and look the Mayans had indoor plumbing, acqueducts, and pressurized water too. I mean, you can ignore that the area Mayans lived in had little to few rivers, no lakes or standing water, nor other sources of running water, while simultaneously dealing with monsoons and flooding due to one of the heaviest yearly rainfalls in the Americas.

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    Classic Maya even used household water filters using locally abundant limestone carved into a porous cylinder, made so as to work in a manner strikingly similar to modern ceramic water filters.

    Of course, by this time millenia later none of your precious “white people” had developed any methods besides shitting in pots.

    Continuing, the earliest archaeological record of an advanced system of drainage comes from the Indus Valley Civilization from around 3100 B.C.E in what is now Pakistan and North India.  By 2500 B.C.E (almost 5,000 years ago), highly developed drainage system where wastewater from each house flowed into the main drain.
    All houses in the major cities of Harappa and Mohenjo?daro had access to water and drainage facilities. Waste water was directed to covered drains which lined the major streets directed to covered drains, which lined the major streets. Each home had its own private drinking well and its own private bathroom. The mains that carried wastewater to a cesspit were tall enough for people to walk through. Reservoirs, a central drainage system, fresh water pumped into the homes. Pools. Baths.

    Filters for solid waste.

    Sorry, what were the British doing up until like, 200 years ago? Shitting in the streets? Oh yeah.
    I mean, I could get into how by the Shang Dynasty (roughly 1600 B.C.E.), China had sophisticated plumbing including pressure inverted siphons.
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    Or into the city of Amarna, Ancient Egypt. Or Persepolis, Persia and the Achaemenids in 600 B.C.E.
    But, I mean, it sounds like the only one still in the Bronze Age is you.

    I love it when people bring facts to white supremacist logic.

    White people ain’t shit

    Not only is this an excellent rebuttal to the idea of European supremacy, but it’s also a reminder that technological progress isn’t always forward. We lose technology, backslide, and discover it (or something similar) gain. 

    The past doesn’t look like you’ve been taught. 

  • ravenclawgirl29:

    ask-an-mra-anything:

    thehightechpony:

    picturexthisx:

    prismatic-bell:

    frootofmyloins:

    apersnicketylemon:

    chickenslayer99:

    This is killing a human life.

    At 23 weeks chances are good that this fetus is being removed because it is:

    a) Already dead
    b) Suffering abnormalities such as it developed no brain, or had a serious genetic condition that would kill it quickly.
    c) Was actively dying (not dead yet but would be within a few days, 100% guarunteed, 0 chance of saving it)
    d) Was actively killing the pregnant person.

    Late term abortions, as shown here, make up only 1.5% of all abortions. The above four reasons are the only reasons such procedures are performed. Almost every abortion performed after 20 weeks is done on a wanted pregnancy. So you know what that means? You’re calling people who miscarried murderers. You just implied people who had a miscarriage or would have died murderers. How dare you call yourself pro life for that.

    Now for the fun fact: They used to use a different procedure for these abortions in which they removed the fetus intact and allowed these people to grieve for the intact fetus, have pictures, etc. Pro lifers decided people losing a wanted pregnancy should not be allowed to grieve an intact fetus and we were left with this.

    Congrats. Your movement is the reason they use this one now when people lose a wanted pregnancy late into the pregnancy. Your movement is intentionally making it harder for people to recover from the lose of a much wanted pregnancy. It’s your movement who left grieving people with this instead of allowing them something easier to deal with, something that would let them hold their deceased fetus.

    Congrats. If you think you were ‘saving’ something think again. You’re hurting born people. You’re hurting people who lose a wanted pregnancy by shaming this abortion procedure. And you’re movement is the reason this is procedure doctors are forced to use now. You’re probably an awful and mean person to tell people losing a wanted pregnancy that they’re killers.

    This is the post that made me pro-choice. Glad to see it still circulating.

    I lost a baby brother at something like 14 weeks because he’d attached to the uterine wall backward, and when he started kicking he tore himself away and hemorrhaged to death.

    You goddamn “pro-lifers” were ready to let my mother die with him rather than “killing him before God’s time.” He was already dead; it was a matter at that point of him bleeding out. My mother was bleeding with him. My mother was dying with him. And the hospital she was in? That fine pro-life hospital? Refused to let her transfer to another hospital to abort. She had a ten-year-old and an eight-month old at home, but making sure Joey didn’t die “before God’s time” was more goddamn important than making sure my mother survived.

    My mother asked the nurse if she’d take pictures, saying that the ultrasound images were really blurry and she’d at least like something to remember him by. The nurse, after Joey was dead and my mom was in recovery, threw pictures on my mother’s bed. This fine pro-life nurse gave my mother pictures of a baby that was jet black where he wasn’t blood red. He didn’t even look human. And she threw the pictures in my mother’s face, like it was her fault that there was a terrible, terrible biological mistake that made it impossible for her baby to survive.

    We wanted him. Not that the fact that you’ll notice he already had a name picked out would’ve clued you in. I would have had a baby brother just a year younger than me. My sophomore year in college I spent a lot of time crying alone in the student union, thinking it wasn’t right, it wasn’t fair, I should be taking my brother to dinner with friends or helping him study for his first midterms. I’m a big sister with no little brother to show for it, and there was a year that pain and loss came back eighteen years after the fact to wound me when I least expected it. There was a year when there were songs I couldn’t bring myself to listen to without crying because they reminded me of what I could have had. And I still wish, I still wish, they’d aborted him. Because the end result would have been the same. And my family would have been spared a world of pain believing we were losing brother and mother both. I was in ICU at the time after an allergic reaction that left me unable to breathe. How do you suppose my sister felt? Mother dying, sister dying, brother dead—just a matter of time on that one. Ten years old, watching her entire family struggling to breathe, struggling to live.

    And you motherfuckers would call my mom a murderer for this. And you cared more for a baby already dying than you did for the two already born who needed their mom. 

    Fuck you. You’re not pro-life. You’re anti-woman, anti-family, anti-compassion and anti-love.

    Someone on my FB shared this photo and I had to go sit in silence for awhile at the stupidity of her comment that went along with it. Most people don’t wait so late into a pregnancy and randomly decide ‘kill the baby’ because they want to. What the fuck is wrong with people.

    Why I will always be pro choice

    I’m absolutely crying right now

    This really pisses me off, because last year my cousin Emily (Emmie) actually did die from not being able to abort her baby. When she was just under 20 weeks along with her second daughter they found out she had a condition which causes high blood pressure and protein in urine. The doctors gave her like a 5% chance of being able to bring the baby to term with both of them surviving. She and her husband were DEVASTATED.

    She regretfully scheduled an appointment to terminate, but people found out. She went to church for comfort, so that she would have people there for her when she would need them but she got the opposite. Her church threatened to ex-communicate her, even though she tried to explain she didn’t want to abort, she had to to survive. People told her that a good mother would be willing to risk her life for her child, and sent her letters saying she was going to hell and threatening to physically attack her if she went through with it. Someone even told her four-year-old daughter, who was really excited about getting a little sister, that “You aren’t going to get a little sister because mommy is going to kill the baby.” They told that to a FOUR-YEAR-OLD! The harassment got so bad that on the day of her appointment, she didn’t go. About a later her liver started to fail, then her kidneys. Within a few days she was dead. They did deliver the baby at 23 and a half weeks, but she didn’t survive more than a few hours.

    Of course the church held a big memorial for her and the baby, going on and on about hour strong she was and what a great person and mother she was. And how it was a tragedy that she was taken so young but “god works in mysterious ways.” 

    BULL FUCKING SHIT! Emmie was already vulnerable and distraught and she went to those people looking for comfort and they turned on her so brutally that she was too terrified and ashamed to have a necessary medical procedure. That’s NOT pro-life. That’s not even anti-choice, because she didn’t have a choice, she NEEDED that abortion to save her life. That is pro-birth. Congrats, the baby was born. She lived for 2 hours and 48 minutes, the entire time in pain, but she was born. Mission accomplished. But now the baby’s dead, Emmie’s dead at only 28 years old, her husband is a widower, and her now 5 year old daughter gets to live the rest of her life without a mother.

  • demelzahcarne:

    Nadiya – Winner of The Great British Bake Off 2015

    She rocked that final.

    As a side point, fuck the daily mail. 

  • x-cetra:

    thisisntmyrealhair:

    classictrek:

    Why Star Trek matters.

    Why representation matters too.

    Nichelle has devoted a good chunk of her life to helping others Boldly Go…

    “Nichols has served as a member of the Board of Directors for the National Space Institute (now the National Space Society), and been active in the leadership of the Space Cadets of America, an organization for young people interested in space and space careers. Through her consultant firm, Women in Motion, Inc., Nichols was instrumental in the NASA Astronaut Corps pioneering effort to break away from their all-white, all-male past. She received NASA’s distinguished Public Service Award for her efforts and continued success.” — NSS

    Nichelle Nichols’ recruits for NASA include:

    • Dr. Sally Ride, first American woman in space
    • Colonel Guion Bluford, first black man in space
    • Dr. Judith Resnik, second American woman in space
    • Dr. Ronald McNair, second black man in space
    • Dr. Mae Jemison, first black woman in space
    • Lt. Col. Ellison Onizuka, first Asian-American in space
    • Current NASA adminstrator Charles Bolden
    • Former NASA Deputy Administrator Lori Garver