[M]en who share household and child-rearing responsibilities with women are mistaken if they think that this act of choice, often buttressed by the gratitude and admiration of others, is anything like the woman’s experience of being forcibly socialized into these tasks and of having others perceive this as her natural function in the scheme of things.

Uma Narayan, “The Project of Feminist Epistemology:  Perspectives from a Nonwestern Feminist” (1989)